Hi Frugalistas! Everyone I know wants to pack less and pack better for their next trip – but so many people think a small, carry on bag as your only luggage is an impossible ask. Here are 5 of the most common packing mistakes I see in other people’s bags, and how I avoid them:
1. Too Many Pairs of Shoes
I recently read a post by a young woman, very proud that she’d managed to “only” take six pairs of shoes on an overseas trip. In her post she listed the shoes she’d packed into a combination of her suitcase and her carry on luggage: running shoes, converse sneakers, stilettos, flipflops, ballet flats, and sandals. Her trip was not an around the world, do it all extravaganza – it was a simple trip to another continent on a guided tour. Where was she going to put her souvenirs, and how was she going to manage her luggage on her own?
Shoes are the single most space consuming item in your luggage. It therefore makes sense to try and limit the space they take up in your bag, no? I lerve my shoes, and own many, many pairs, but when I travel, I restrict myself to 2 pairs – one pair on and one in the bag. If you make the right choices, it is possible to manage with just 2 pairs. (If you are staying in accommodation with shared bathrooms, a pair of flipflops is definitely OK though).
2. Packing half the bathroom
Hairdryers, curling tongs, hair straighteners, and that’s before you even start on your toiletries! Sound like you? Forget about it. Even cheap hotels have hair dryers these days, and do you really need the straighten and/or curl your hair every day while you are away? Your hair is going to look different regardless – different water, different humidity, and different climate – so why not embrace that and do your hair differently?
With the current restrictions on the packing of liquids it is really easy now to pack light with your toiletries. It is easy to buy small bottles etc to decant your goodies into, and also easy to buy many popular brands in traveling sizes. Even if you are planning on checking in your luggage, stick to the international carry on 100ml limits, and see just how much extra room you can give yourself (also how you can limit the damage, if you get a leak or breakage!)

Yes, much of this does come with me when I travel – decanted into much smaller containers, stored in a plastic ziploc bag
3. “Just in Case” Items
Unless it is just in case you get sick/get into danger/meet someone you want to get closer to (ie completely necessary in case of emergency), you do not need to pack things just in case….just don’t do it. You can read more about avoiding “just in case” in this post.

Yes, I do own a big suitcase! This one is used by our family to take on road trips – we all use it, and just take one bag between the three of us
4. Separate outfits that can only be worn in very limited circumstances
Unless you are going on a cruise where you are expected to dress for dinner every night, or going on a 3 Michelin star eating tour of Europe where you will need to dress, leave the fancy clothes behind, and stick to sensible separates in plain colours and fabrics that can be dressed up or down with accessories and jewellery. Think Little Black Dress and you can’t go wrong……
5. Only taking skimpy gear to warmer climates
Unless you are planning on just lying on the beach, and never want to go into a temple, church or want to visit someone’s home you do need something that will cover your shoulders and knees. I would hate to travel to the other side of the world and not be allowed to visit what I had come to see just because I didn’t have suitable clothing……..Similarly, just because you don’t get sunburn at home, don’t assume that you will be lucky in the tropics. Regardless of where you are going, make sure you can make at least one outfit where your knees and shoulders will be covered (this applies equally to men).
So, pack light, pack right and have a great trip!
I find I get weighed down by my “just in case” items and my photography gear. I’m pretty good with everything else and usually have plenty of extra space in my bag… it’s a 65 liter though!
Photography gear does make it difficult – I’m just a happy snapper so don’t have the problem! Thanks for reading and commenting!
haha i don’t regret any of the shoes I ended up packing.
Good for you! Don’t worry, everyone finds the two pairs of shoes a bit confronting!
I am guilty of every single one of these, especially the ‘just in case’ packing. I end up wearing/using about a quarter of the stuff in my case but I still can’t bring myself to leave 2/3’s at home!
Don’t worry I’ve done it too! I forced myself to do it when I decided I was only going to travel with a carry on bag only, and I’ve never looked back – wouldn’t do it any other way now.
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Great advice. We just got back from three months in New Zealand and Australia and I now have a new understanding and appreciation for packing light. I could have easily left at home 1/3 of what went in my 55 liter rucksack and my shoulders & back would have thanked me! I did reach a new milestone in shoe packing though–one pair of sneakers, one pair of flats, and a pair of flip flops (I did bring hiking boots, which I wore while travelling longer distances). *So* proud of that one.
New rule: a 34 liter backpack is all I’m taking from now on. Which is as much about not carrying too much stuff as it is about avoiding checked baggage fees on short-haul flights.
Well done! It’s taken me 20+ years of trying to get it right to get to the point I’m at now with packing, and even now there are times I know I’ve packed too much – even though I only pack a carry on suitcase. The shoe thing seems to be the most confronting for women – cut back gradually each time till you get there.
Thanks for reading, and taking the time to comment!
One way to wean yourself of over packing is to lay out everything you didn’t use once you return and study it. Why did you take it? What were your thoughts when you put it in the bag. If you packed a swimsuit but it rained the whole time so you didn’t get to use it – that’s different from the “just in case” items. One of my friends was so bad I suggested she lay the extras out on the bed and take a picture. She posted the photo on line and each time she got home she did the same. The pile kept shrinking. Last trip she had one extra tee shirt. That’s over packing I can live with!
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Your frien has done well. I would regard that as a contingency plan rather than just in case! 🙂 thanks for commenting!
Just had another look at your blog and realized your header photo is of the bridge climb in Sydney! Nice! 🙂
Great list. I tried to hard to pare it down on my recent European trip, I got everything into one carry-on size suitcase but still ended up with things I didn’t wear. Now I’ve got to pack for rainy and chilly Seattle followed by potentially baking Northern California. And I am determined not to increase the size of my suitcase.
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I’m going to put this plan into action. I’m packing right now for a trip to Europe. Part business/part pleasure. I’m going to try to contain things to one suitcase. Wish me luck!
If you haven’t already read my other posts on packing. I’ve written quite a lot on packing and one bag travel because it seems to be the thing that most people struggle with. Make sure you get whoever you are traveling with to do the same so you’re not standing round all day for them to get organized!
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I was on a Mediterranean cruise with extra days in Istanbul up front – two weeks away from home. I took two pair of nice Ecco flats, one which I wore on the flight, and one very skimpy pair of high heeled sandals for formal nights. That was it. And I have lots of shoes (Fluevogs are my latest passion). You know what? I was fine!
For each trip I make a detailed list (computer WP doc) of everything packed. I take a copy which I keep with me at all times in case of disaster like a bag going missing. When I return I make notes about what worked, what didn’t, what I never wore. Over time I’ve cut down on everything and now seldom have “didn’t wear” notes. Before the next trip to a similar climate I re-read the notes to prevent overpacking and mistakes.
Wow, that’s organised! I think about what worked and didn’t and make mental notes. A detailed typed list with notes – I’m impressed! Thanks for dropping by!
Great post. To get myself onto an airplane with just one carry-on and one checked bag, I always tell myself that I can buy whatever I need abroad in case I really, really needed it. Any premium I spend on occasionally buying something abroad is offset by all the money I save avoiding extra baggage fees.
That is precisely the point! Paying excess baggage is the most blatant waste of money that is entirely avoidable.
Personally I don’t check bags and just take one carry on bag, but that’s taken years of practice to get to that point.
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I hadn’t heard of that – what a great idea! Thanks for sharing!
I once read that ICN (Seoul Incheon), to take advantage of those traveling to warmer climes, opened a storage area for bulky clothes. I can’t find the link now, but it’s a good idea nonetheless.
Good post! I could really relate to your point # 5 as it’s happened to me several times where I brought only clothes that fit the forecast for the region I was visiting. But with weather systems being so volatile these days, weather is changing and we really have to be prepared for cooler and warmer than the norm for any region. Plus, what happened to me on my fist visit to South America: I got bitten by sand flies and had dreadful bites all over my legs that looked like lepracy! I had to keep my legs covered so people wouldnt’ be afraid of me, so the sundresses I’d brought did me no good.
Thanks for your comment! While I don’t like packing for ‘just in case’ I do think it is important to pack a variety of clothes, so you’re covered if anything unforeseen happens.
I usually do a good job with clothes and shoes but it’s the hair/makeup/beauty products and appliances that I can’t seem to leave at home. My thought is that I will cherish my travel photos for my whole life and I want to look as good as I can in the pics. Maybe a little silly! Oh well!
I also take my hair/make up and beauty products – don’t worry about that! I just make sure I pack them in small containers, and stick to the 3-1-1 rule. Appliances I don’t bother with – I find my hair is disastrous when I travel, no matter what I do!
Great tips! Packing was always hard for me, until I had to carry everything I owned in one suitcase – I learned to travel light very quick!
Thanks Nicole! There’s nothing like having to lug your own luggage to focus the mind
For me, the problem is not volume, but weight. I pack reasonably light and I haven’t checked baggage in years (not even for a cruise). You can stuff too much into a carryon for comfort as I found in a trip to Europe last year, especially when I added gifts and a purse and shoes I couldn’t live without. My carry on duffle became very uncomfortable to lug around. This time, I’m going to try to limit my bag to less than 8 kilos, ideally 15 lbs. My main sticking points are tops (I currently have a short list of 10!) and shoes. We are going to be hiking and doing a lot of urban walking. I’ve got it down to four, must pare it down to 3. Thanks for the tips!
With the tops, work out which ones will match your bottoms best, and that you can make the most outfits from. Dark rather than light colours are also helpful as they obviously don’t show the dirt as badly.
Thanks for sharing your experience so everyone else can learn from them too.
Yes, I will get there eventually. My color palette is black/gray/blue/white for the most part; everything goes together. Just need a good mix of hiking appropriate and city appropriate as we’ll be doing some of each (that goes for the shoes as well). Ditching the white/lighter tops is a good suggestion, thanks!
An upside of leaving the just-in-case items, though, is that if you turn out to need fx the just-in-case sweater, you did not pack, you have a great excuse to buy a new one. Packing light also means you set yourself up to buy the things you end up needing, and those are so much better “souvenirs” than useless trinkets…
Ha ha Anya, you are SOOO right! In fact one of my favourite sweaters was one I had to buy in Europe as I was a bit colder than I had anticipated!
Haha – I suspect your ‘Too many pairs of shoes’ paragraph refers to me. In my own defence, I am not young, I didn’t pack any stilettos and I wasn’t on a tour but the rest of it is pretty accurate – lol.
Don’t worry Lyn, there was a time when “too many pairs of shoes” applied to me too! I think my record was 5 pairs – on my honeymoon!
Great tips and I fully agree with. But as videographer, filming in 4k, the luggage of one person is only equipment. Regardless how long we travel, we only take clothes for one week, because you always find a place to wash them. In Asia it is perfect, because washing so cheap, that you don’t have to do it by your own.
Taking a limited amount of clothing and doing washing is a great way to compromise packing space if you need to take other things.
It is really hard to pack one bag if you have winter clothes, which are bulky. And more formal clothes. It is hard to pack rain/snow boots and a men’s suit in a carryon. We have decided to use one checked bag and one backpack carryon.
I once traveled to Virginia for my college reunion in November. I packed all warm clothes, remembering the days I froze my tail off. It was unseasonably warm that weekend, and I was roasting in my warm clothes walking around D.C. I had to buy a t-shirt and change in the bathroom. Sometimes you never know.
Winter clothes can be bulky, but I get around that by packing clothes that can be layered rather than ultra thick sweaters. If you are traveling at a time of the year when the weather is variable sometimes you can get caught out – but again, that’s why I like to pack layers most of the time.